healthy communication

It is important for family members to have positive communication amongst one another. My family is divorced and communication is one of our main problems. Us kids are often put in the middle and become the "messangers" between my mom and dad. This is not healthy for us kids because there are multiple issues that we should not have to deal with at our age. Our parents needs to realize the negative effects this communication system has on us. Over the years they have grown significantly better and our making an effort to keep us out of the middle. There are still inicdents but it has improved greatly over the years and I can see the positive effects it is having on our family.